#Love is an #acceptance. When one accepts someone without any #bargain, without any #differentiation, without any judgment, that is when #love is there.
This is complication of speech given by Vivek ji on the subject of #Love and #Life, the speech is known and admired as one on the best ever given speech on love and life
Love is an acceptance. When one accepts someone without any bargain, without any differentiation, without any judgment, that is when love is there.
We generally do not accept someone as one is, we do not. We accept partly, something, somewhere. Love is when you start accepting everything as it is, as existence accepts us, as we are without bargain.
As soon as you start to accept, in the mere feeling of acceptance, you reach to the tip of your psychological upbringing where you don’t differentiate what is good, what is bad; what you like, what you don’t; Our likeness, our choices, are just psychological, they are our upbringings, markings made on our psyche. The meaning of acceptance is the fight against your entire upbringing, your psychological space, and your unconscious.
When you start to accept someone as they are, you flow with him/her, you flow without any boundaries, you flow without any pressure, you just flow, flow to mix, to merge, to disappear in the reality of each other. Where there is no duality, only oneness exists. You accept the truth of other, which is the biggest acceptance. Accepting the truth, this is what we don’t accept, we can accept the lies, we can accept the false, but we hardly accept the truth. This is the sole reason why people do not say the truth; they have a hard time to reveal the truth, the reality, and the real one. And love is acceptance of the truth, only truth, the naked and holy truth. You accept the habits of other; you accept the good and bad of other. You accept everything that the other possesses. You accept, for you the acceptance is important not what you have accepted, the mere feeling of acceptance and its pathway is your way. Your path is the path of acceptance, you don’t give a thought to what you have accepted, you do not judge, you do not rule, you do not fix what is good what is bad, you don’t go in your socio-psychological morality, you leave behind everything; you possess only the acceptance, the sole and the real acceptance, the utter void of acceptance.
We accept what we like; we do not accept what we don’t like. This is why you could see people living with each other like prototypes, bogus and ugly imitations. One has to like what another likes, one has to do what another does, life becomes so boring, there is no energy, no way of merging, no way of understanding, a whole different scenario of another, two people live like each others imitations, bogus, false.
We accept what we like; we do not accept what we don’t like. This is why you could see people living with each other like prototypes, bogus and ugly imitations. One has to like what another likes, one has to do what another does, life becomes so boring, there is no energy, no way of merging, no way of understanding, a whole different scenario of another, two people live like each others imitations, bogus, false.
When you accept someone, you do not try to make any change in him/her. If someone changes out of your acceptance, it’s his/her freedom. You do not have to do anything about it; you never because you never try to make any change, you accept one as one is, in his or her existence. It is not only accepting oneself; it is the acceptance of all the flavor of existence. Like with nature; you accept day and night, you accept sun and wind, you accept rain and clouds, you accept hot and cool, and you accept all the facets of nature. Wide and variable to each other, different to each other, opposite to each other but yet, the part of undifferentiated existence. You accept all, which is in existence, as a whole, without bargain. You cannot bargain, because you cannot accept only the rains and refuse to accept the sun. You cannot accept only the clouds and refuse to accept the rains, you cannot; rain depends on sun and wind, day depends on night, everything is so dependent on each other, the factors of one another. We understand it for nature but we don’t for life; we miss it, that love teaches us to accept, and accept everything without any bargain.
Acceptance grows in deep faith because one knows that there is nothing to hide about; why to hide? When one is ready to accept everything, this faith makes way for the feeling of openness; and then one is ready to open oneself; one gives chance to understand oneself and then one gets more to see ones reality, the real fervor, the reality of oneself. This gives a chance for understanding, this gives a chance to develop respect for oneself, and this gives chance for one to prosper in love with another.
Acceptance opens the rest of the barrier, it opens the barrier between love and you, it breaks everything; it gives chance to all factors that make love grow.
Acceptance opens the rest of the barrier, it opens the barrier between love and you, it breaks everything; it gives chance to all factors that make love grow.
By accepting, you don’t only help yourself to understand better, you give chance to others too, to know what they are. Because acceptance gives chance to oneself to be open; opening gives chance to oneself to know what is there in it, in their existence, what is there, from flower to throne everything comes out; one becomes more and more aware of himself/herself, that sometimes we never are. It not only gives us a chance to understand the other person better, but it gives a chance to us as well to understand ourself better, it is a two way process of understanding. You understand yourself and you give chances to the other person to understand you; by mere opening, acceptance brings all the flowers and its fragrances in life, just by opening and accepting.
We all live in a world of haste, as soon as we meet someone, we fall in attraction, we start to change ourself as we want and we find that most of time we do not succeed or even if we succeed, it is only in the false sense. In reality everything goes on, acceptance in a way is giving time; time to know oneself and giving time to know what one is. As he/she is, it is the understanding, it is the full anthropology. You just do not understand the present, you just do not understand the factors; by mere accepting you give chances to know the roots of reality, why one is like that. It gives chance to oneself to know why one is like that; then the real process comes in, growing with love, one changes - but without any pressure, without any ego, one just changes. Changing in a way the partner likes, now there is no lies, there is no shadows of false, there is truth and only truth, truth of knowing oneself and understanding oneself. Understanding the past, understanding the present, and understanding a whole cosmos within.
Acceptance brings the chance of changes in a direction that another gives, knowing the respect has grown, grown not out of pressure, not out of anger but out of love, a deep love and faith. This grows in between by acceptance only, by accepting oneself. It is a kind of help, help to know one better, and help to let know oneself better about him /her. Love is help, help to grow, help to merge, help to reach in each other's reality.
Vivek ji
(From the discourse given on love and life)
This is complication of speech given by Vivek ji on the subject of #Love and #Life, the speech is known and admired as one on the best ever given speech on love and life